Wynonna Judd got engaged to sweetheart and band member Cactus Moser on Christmas Eve, and the singer just revealed some details about her upcoming fall wedding. While you might expect the country star to go for something shimmering and glitzy, Judd says that’s not in the cards for her in this, her third, wedding. In fact, this time around she tells People that the theme will be “barefoot and just fun.”

“I’ve been to so many events and done so many push-up bras and sparkles and hairspray,” she said. ”I just want to be free and have fun … so I don’t know. Something simple and sweet.” The 47-year-old talent has had a rough go at it since 2010, when she encountered some serious health scares and a head-on collision, both instances that led her to lose 50 pounds.

Judd, who is the mother to two teenagers from her first marriage with Arch Kelley III, and ended her second marriage in 2007, says she’s stepping back to survey her life.

“It’s time for me to stop the car, take out the map and see where I’m headed,” she says. “So I’m just gonna live and enjoy every day being engaged and getting married.” Judd and Moser will wed on Judd’s farm in the fall, a time of year Judd chose because, in her own words, “it’s not a sweaty time for brides.”